Ladies: do you know what Men want in a Relationship?

What men want in a relationship
Do you know what men really want in a relationship? Do you know what keeps a man interested in a woman when in a relationship or marriage? Below are some certain areas worth concentrating on;


#1. HONEST COMMUNICATION IS TOP PRIORITY FOR MEN.
Men want a woman who is honest. We (yours faithfully is a man too *winks*) want a woman who is straightforward, who sees the truth and tell it as it is with kindness while communicating. A woman who can communicate and criticize constructively without anger. One sure way to attract and keep a man is to communicate effectively.

#2. MEN WANT SELF-SUFFICIENT, SECURE AND CONFIDENT WOMEN.
We men desire an active and independent woman. A woman who keeps well-to-do friends and have remarkable interests. Men treasure fulfilled women. Another powerful way to attract and keep a good man is to have a full rewarding life reflecting personal fulfillment. 

#3. MEN HATE MIND-GAME PLAYERS AND MANIPULATORS.
Men despise mind-game players and manipulators. They do not enjoy been coerced to move faster in a relationship than they are ready. Men never want to be manipulated into taking blames for all the things that go wrong. To attract a good man and build an exceptional relationship, women need to learn the skill of acknowledgment. Women need to be submissive, request for support in every area of their lives and also bestow praise.

#4. MEN WANT GROWTH, PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY, AND OWNERSHIP.
Men enjoy a woman who can laugh at herself. A woman who has courage, strength and is emotionally stable. Men desire women who are emotionally mature. Maturity here does not mean lack of emotions, it means the ability to manage emotions responsibly. To attract a good man and build a long term relationship, ladies you need to learn to take responsibility for your emotional experience and expression.

#5. MEN WANT WOMEN WHO KNOW HOW MEN NEED TO BE TREATED.
Many a woman treat men in ways that diminish their egos, reduce their self-esteem, making them feel inferior. Men would rather have more praise showered on them when they do good. Men like to feel acknowledged and appreciated when they do the right thing. Most women think they do not have to show support because men do not care about women's achievement as well, but that is not always true. Learning to acknowledge instead of making your partner feel wrong is one of the most powerful relationship survival tools available to you.

Now that you know some of what men want in a relationship, you should try as much as possible to recognize what he likes and dislikes, improve yourself and remember this rule- "Do what is required of you in a relationship and do not request for what your partner need to do for you (without having done your own part)"


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