4 Reasons Why a Non-Virgin Lady Would not Make-Out With You

4 Reasons Why a Non-Virgin Lady Would not Make-Out With You

Do you know why a lady who's not a virgin won't make-out with you as soon as you two hook-up? Have you been in such love relationship where you try to get past the third base, knowing fully well that your lady isn't a virgin and she would give in sooner or later, but she just won't? There are so many reasons why a non-virgin lady will refuse making love with you, below are four of the reasons;

1. Lack Of Comfort

A cute lady could be massively attracted to you, but that won’t lead to sex until she feels a certain level of comfort around you. Firstly, she needs to feel safe alone in your presence. You might be handsome, but still, a stranger who can not trust yet. Secondly, she needs to feel some sort of emotional connection. Sex is an emotional experience for her, so you’ll need to touch her heart before you touch her body. Don’t try and take her home the minute she shows or admits she’s attracted to you. That’s a great way to make her uncomfortable. Instead, spend some time alone in public. Share stories, take her places, get to know her more.

2. Slut-Shaming

It’s unfortunate that slut-shaming exist I'm this present time. Society shames girls who sleep with men they’ve just met, and most girls will place their reputation ahead of even the most gorgeous guy. She’ll rarely admit she wants to have make-out with you, so be subtle in your attempts to get her into bed. A great first step is to get her away from her friends, where she’ll feel more free to release her sexual side. As for pick-up lines, "Wanna have sex?" doesn’t work anymore, even if she's a slut. "Wanna come to my place for some food and movies?’ may work for a lady who likes to sit at home, eat and see movies. 

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3. Bad Logistics

Our slut-shaming society also tells her that getting sex should not involve any effort on her part. Hence, she’ll nearly always reject a 90-minute night bus journey for sex. She won’t walk home in the rain or vacate any mates she’s looking after. She won’t mess up any important plans she has in the morning. So, get your route and your excuse (for her) to go home (with you) sorted beforehand.

4. She Feels Ugly

This lady could look like the next Victoria’s Secret model to you, but there’s no telling how she feels about her body. She could be on her period, feeling bloated, unshaven or paranoid about a small mole on her arm. These are perfectly rational reasons for her to reject sex. All four of these excuses might sound stupid to your average bro. But they’ve probably cost every player at least a couple of lays.

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So what’s the solution? 

Some would say to just wait patiently for the right time and place. That if a non-virgin girl really likes you, it’ll happen when it’s meant to happen. But, if you don’t want to wait for fate to get laid, you may want to look for ways around these walls. Try isolating the girl from her slut-shaming friends, building comfort by sharing personal stories and making sure you plan a stress-free route home. Keep things fun and fluid, so she doesn’t have time to dither on these downsides. It might just get you past the finish line faster. Good luck.


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