8 Major Ways To Deal With A Friend Who Loves Your Boyfriend

8 Major Ways To Deal With A Friend Who Loves Your Boyfriend

8 Major Ways To Deal With A Friend Who Loves Your Boyfriend

There are some friends who just can’t keep their eyes and minds off your boyfriend. Jealousy will set in when you, as a lady notice that your best friend really likes your boyfriend – sort of a crush on him. It is not abnormal for you to be jealous. But, should you treat both of them with suspicion? No. That can create difficult issues. You have to be very careful and deal with the situation in a very mature manner. The 8 tips below can help you do that:

1. Be Patient with Your Friend: When such issue arises, you have to be very patient with your friend and be sure you are very certain about it.

2. Observe. Watch: It’s possible that you’re wrongly seeing your friend’s behavior with your boyfriend as more than it really is, so make sure you gather enough evidence before reacting or doing anything that could possibly disrupt your friendship with her.

3. Discuss it with your boyfriend: You have to alert your boyfriend about how you feel about the situation. Ask him: Has he observed anything over-friendly about your friend? Does he feel uncomfortable around her? If he is sincere to answer these questions, he can put your feelings into consideration.

4. Cut her off on some things: If your friend seems to be overdoing it with your boyfriend, without seeming like you are avoiding her, gradually drop your friend from any activities that your boyfriend will be partaking in.

5. Make sure your suspicions are well-grounded: Before you react, make sure that your suspicions are well-grounded, and not just a feeling of being threatened by her presence around your boyfriend. Just because there is another female hanging around him doesn’t mean that he’s going dump you for her.

6. Drop her hints: Be proud of your boyfriend in her presence! That is intimidating her about your boyfriend. Talk about how much you love and care for your boyfriend, tell her stories about how well you do together, and/or tell her some of your plans for the future.

7. Let her know of your intention: Make it clear that you have no intention of breaking up with your boyfriend, and if you have to choose between her and him, you’d choose him. And if your friend still does not get the hint, tell her straight out that he is your boyfriend and you don’t like the way she’s been acting around him.

8. If she doesn’t stop, break up with her: If she doesn’t stop, you may have to break up your friendship with her. Let her know in a mature way that you are upset with her and don’t like what she’s doing and until she stops, you can’t be friends with her.

Try all these steps without overreacting, and you’d have your feelings right again.


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